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Full Episode: “Fix My Family Love Triangle” (Ep. 218) | Iyanla: Fix My Life | Oprah Winfrey Network

Iyanla Vanzant travels to California to meet with the Sullivans, a family caught in the middle of a love triangle between an adult son and his feuding mother and wife. For more on #FIXMYLIFE, visit WatchOWN.tv/Iyanla
(Original air date: June 21, 2014)
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Full Episode: “Fix My Family Love Triangle” (Ep. 218) | Iyanla: Fix My Life | Oprah Winfrey Network


  1. rt thomas

    rt thomas

    5 саат мурун

    Am I wrong for focusing on the wife's hair instead of the family's issues?

  2. Khangelwa Khathi

    Khangelwa Khathi

    Күн мурун

    This man is turning these women against each other, he convinced his wife that his mother wasnt a good person to be around for them and their son and when his mother wants a relaationship he acts like its his wife only that doesnt want her there!! He hasnt forgiven his mother and is using his wife to stay away from his mom!!! And the wife ofcourse just excels at being vindictive!!

  3. Andromedon


    3 күн мурун

    Sheesh he annoying, and she is too. I wonder if they looked back at this and saw how crazy being stubborn looks on film lol Hope they really doing ok.

  4. cmloubert72


    3 күн мурун

    WOW... The level of Stubborn and ability for people to not own there own behaviors... Just Wow... Iyanla deserves another Honor badge for sticking it out with this family like always

  5. S Coles

    S Coles

    3 күн мурун

    Another episode that had me crying like a baby...

  6. maxiscoozu ba

    maxiscoozu ba

    4 күн мурун

    Ooh Keisha's that type of woman she don't want his daughters or his mother. She only wants her man and their kid. She is the big boss

  7. Geraldine Allison

    Geraldine Allison

    4 күн мурун

    I hope the family will learn to trust.

  8. Alicia Maria

    Alicia Maria

    4 күн мурун

    Why even get involved with Ms Iyanla if nobody ever wants to tryst her process??? The disrespect towards her really is uncalled for. If you had everything together ALREADY... you wouldn’t need her. And looking at these shows, y’all need more than Iyanla.

  9. Alicia Maria

    Alicia Maria

    4 күн мурун

    Wives matter but women don’t turn these men against or take them away from their mothers. Especially being a mother YOURSELF!

  10. Yessy Williams

    Yessy Williams

    5 күн мурун

    talking to him is like talking to a young teenage boy. praying he is working on healing

  11. Miriam Eclipse

    Miriam Eclipse

    5 күн мурун

    The wife got a nasty attitude and the hubby seems weak

  12. Miriam Eclipse

    Miriam Eclipse

    6 күн мурун

    That mama is outta order

  13. sweet.finesse


    6 күн мурун

    Donye haven’t change a bit. I met him summer 2020. Very childish ways

  14. Ayaan Shire

    Ayaan Shire

    7 күн мурун

    But he lets his damn wife to disrespect his mother so sad

  15. Ebony KR

    Ebony KR

    8 күн мурун

    Man the way he talked and acted with his daughters hurt me. It reminded me of my dad so much!

  16. G J

    G J

    8 күн мурун

    I love it

  17. Head Smooty

    Head Smooty

    9 күн мурун

    Rich oppressed ninjas with talk shows helping other rich oppressed ninjas with their ninja problems

  18. Kierra Thompson

    Kierra Thompson

    9 күн мурун

    The update at the end made me very happy! Glad to see they are involving Carolyn. They didn’t have much of an update for Donye and his daughters, he was so oblivious to how he treated them and I’m not surprised there wasn’t much to report

  19. Ndembwa Mponda

    Ndembwa Mponda

    10 күн мурун

    It is true this man cares more about the woman and her son. This woman wants this man for her alone, selfish.

  20. Chelsey Jianni

    Chelsey Jianni

    11 күн мурун

    I don't believe for one second she didn't keep Cairo from that grandmother. In fact, I feel she was probably happy to have a reason to be petty and keep her child from his grandmother for whatever reason. It seems like she just wanted it to be her, Donye and Cairo, with nobody else. That just isn't right.

  21. R Anthony

    R Anthony

    13 күн мурун

    good job

  22. R Anthony

    R Anthony

    13 күн мурун

    He don't want it because he cant give what he don't have. sorry he not sorry

  23. R Anthony

    R Anthony

    13 күн мурун

    Just as I thought. So the (Grandmother) is trying to change the outcome of her parenting. And when she sees another woman, her daughter-in-law doing things that grandma could not have done because of her breakdown, she puts up a resistance almost to say she can do a better job Or even that she wants more than her share to contribute raising the little boy. So it/s her own conscience that is playing in this whole mess- She/s trying to do makeup work. With no disrespect intended, but unfortunately the time has passed for to mother the only son she has, and now she wants a second chance to make up with And through the grandson. But that/s not going to work baby Because the child has a mother and a wife that can take care of both man and boy. It/s not going to work because is not Grandma/s place to try to parent the little boy When he has a mother. Doing That will make the child/s mother Angry and furious. Grandma is upset and she sends that the wife is not putting up with it and so trying to tell the husband to check his mother, is bringing the son and the mother To confusion. The wife is like, you can/t Try to raise my son when I/m alive. Not only Is that disrespectful even though it that wasn/t the intention , It nonetheless is being received that way. I am sure grandma can work on being happy and enjoy her son and grandchild while she Have the chance.

  24. R Anthony

    R Anthony

    13 күн мурун

    I can see right now - somebody feels left out. And somebody wants to control the situation. Unconscious actions and expressions are coming from a place Needs exploring why someone feels left out and someone needs to feel they need to control the situation.That/s get the work.

  25. Malia Smith

    Malia Smith

    14 күн мурун

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  26. Tales From SNO

    Tales From SNO

    14 күн мурун

    It’s his mom crying no tears for me!!

  27. Janelle Williams

    Janelle Williams

    14 күн мурун

    I really don't see continued healing in this family,too many dynamics in play.The Wife has too much angry&attitude towards the Mother-in law.The Husband seems unable or unwilling to take responsibility for his shortcomings and the Mother-in-law just doesn't like the Daughter-in-law and feels the son is a wimp because he sides with his wife and won't step in and allow her to see her Grandson.

  28. renee mitchell

    renee mitchell

    15 күн мурун

    I'm sorry.... not defending him on any way. But...... these women (his daughters) are old enough to call their father and have a just because conversation with their father. Not just when they need something.

  29. Cry of Israel

    Cry of Israel

    15 күн мурун

    Selfishness always ripping families apart

  30. Jenelle Griles

    Jenelle Griles

    15 күн мурун

    Watching this particular episode brings tears to my eyes...to this day (at 54 y/o) I do not have a relationship with my father b/c he is so broken and bitter. As the child, I had to wait until I was older to foster a relationship with my siblings because I wasn't allowed to have one with them when we were younger. We are thick as thieves now but sometimes I still feel like I've missed so much....

  31. Teresa Shaw

    Teresa Shaw

    16 күн мурун

    I really miss her on air

  32. Texas Girl73 Good Job

    Texas Girl73 Good Job

    16 күн мурун

    The EPISODE IS CALLED: And The Lie Detector Says Season : 6 Episodes : 604 and 605 : Parts : 1&2

  33. Texas Girl73 Good Job

    Texas Girl73 Good Job

    16 күн мурун


  34. Texas Girl73 Good Job

    Texas Girl73 Good Job

    16 күн мурун

    Dear Own May You Please upload and the lie detector says it is season 6 episodes 604 and 605 part 1 and part 2 and please do an update CAN you please upload and the lie detector says season 6 episodes 604 and 605 part 1 and part 2 and please do it to where no parts are skipped and that they are clear and their words are connecting with their mouths🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰

  35. ThisIsHott TV

    ThisIsHott TV

    16 күн мурун

    Miss Carolyn took years to walk up that sidewalk

  36. regina martin

    regina martin

    16 күн мурун

    Iyanla 💖💛💖💛💖💛💖

  37. Ana Diallio

    Ana Diallio

    16 күн мурун

    I understand that he is in a new relationship but he should still keep his daughter’s in his because at the end of the day he is still their father and they need their father’s love too .

  38. Zuri


    17 күн мурун

    He's a BOY! He's still stuck in childhood! He can't even take responsibility for his shortcomings! 😒 He has a lot of maturing to do!

  39. Zuri


    17 күн мурун

    I'm a few minutes in & right away I can tell he's a weak man. There's nothing worse than a weak man! 😒

  40. mystart1


    17 күн мурун

    The father is horrible and has no respect for women.

  41. angela manu

    angela manu

    17 күн мурун

    The heart needs soften to be able to heal and move on. Honesty is always key

  42. angela manu

    angela manu

    17 күн мурун

    Awww this man is still young minded, his trapped in that time of a little boy.

  43. Mandee Law

    Mandee Law

    18 күн мурун

    I know why iyanla is calling it quits. Her work would never be done. She has given so much of herself.

  44. Venia Givenchy

    Venia Givenchy

    18 күн мурун

    If you're gonna go talk to iyanla, to counseling, see a psychologist or psychiatrist... Why go & not be willing to let your guard down & tell the truth, even if they truth hurts you & anyone else ? Getting defensive, not admitting the truth, & lying waste everyone's time . Decide to keep it real or just stay home .

  45. LovingAtlanta


    18 күн мурун

    👍I’m glad they were able to work things out.💝

  46. nicollette utloa

    nicollette utloa

    18 күн мурун

    “After those balls grow hair on ‘em, they ain’t your concern no more” And that’s facts on facts.

  47. Hana Mahmoud

    Hana Mahmoud

    18 күн мурун

    Keisha if you read this. As his wife you should aid him with his relationship with his daughters. Why don't YOU have a relationship with your step daughters??

  48. kendra brown

    kendra brown

    18 күн мурун

    I wonder if they are still married 🤔 cause kysha seem veryyyyyy manipulative and the husband seem so child like its sad....his daughters said it themselves its oh girl smh

  49. C-LO 456 Goodgame

    C-LO 456 Goodgame

    19 күн мурун

    So trifling that baby jumped into his grandma’s arms so fast when he saw her .... they some foul people keeping the little boy away from his grandma So keisha thinks it’s all about her and nobody else

  50. Zahara Azure

    Zahara Azure

    19 күн мурун

    When you are married your spouse always comes first before everyone. Even your Mama.

  51. Kimba Chapman

    Kimba Chapman

    19 күн мурун

    Wow he is not being fear because he went back only when his daughter humbled her self and said I can try harder!

  52. Glock Tavious

    Glock Tavious

    19 күн мурун

    I love Iyanla and I wish she didn't stop doing this show its so insightful and she has so much wisdom... It will definitely be missed ..

  53. Thepowerthatcreatesworlds Vibrating Being

    Thepowerthatcreatesworlds Vibrating Being

    19 күн мурун

    This small little family we have...she doesn't want him to have a relationship with his daughters. Too say that is a clear message only Me and my baby matter she toxic .I'm sure she has her own issues hurt people have a way of getting together to hurt everyone around them . I feel sorry for the daughters obviously they need him . I don't trust no man with little hands

  54. Damion WIlliams

    Damion WIlliams

    20 күн мурун

    😂😂😂 "Once those balls have hair on them their no longer your concern" no truer words have ever been spoken

  55. Mrs_ Eccleston0515

    Mrs_ Eccleston0515

    20 күн мурун

    Clearly the wife is the problem. I could not have a husband who doesn’t play an active role in their children’s lives. This is sad. He’s a horrible dad and person. Theses girls need a role model to look up too.

  56. Mrs_ Eccleston0515

    Mrs_ Eccleston0515

    20 күн мурун

    Why can’t he stay? Something is not adding up 🤔. There is such a special bond between mother and son, make up and move on. Life’s too short.

  57. Janis Griffith

    Janis Griffith

    20 күн мурун

    Wife has no love in her heart for him or his family none whatsoevet

  58. Switch Ur Notions

    Switch Ur Notions

    20 күн мурун

    The grandmother is manipulative. She has already raised her child. If the child's mother does not want her around the grandchild, she has to accept it and not cause trouble.

  59. Deidre B.

    Deidre B.

    20 күн мурун

    Aaaww... this was beautiful to see. Having tough conversations/ being forgiving - ends in love❤.

  60. Vanessa Lauren

    Vanessa Lauren

    20 күн мурун

    That little boy brought his family together! Oh my heart!❤❤❤

  61. Marc Edwards

    Marc Edwards

    20 күн мурун

    Well it's about junkie 🧬 🦠 DNA is it Jean for that

  62. BlackPeopleWatch


    20 күн мурун

    Typical.... don’t tell me I’m wrong type man

  63. Tammara Brown

    Tammara Brown

    20 күн мурун

    The granny fuxking rude. An apology cud a fix this long time..

  64. N A

    N A

    20 күн мурун

    Lmao his red shirt fits so perfectly with his situation.

  65. Crystal Williams

    Crystal Williams

    20 күн мурун

    Donye probably got another women somewhere and he is all messed up inside.

  66. Banana Rama

    Banana Rama

    21 күн мурун

    Awww glad they’re on the road to healing. May God Bless them

  67. Nkechi Tyrill

    Nkechi Tyrill

    21 күн мурун

    He is a weak man

  68. Nicole


    21 күн мурун

    The wife is the problem

  69. OnTheRiseWith CandyceEvette

    OnTheRiseWith CandyceEvette

    21 күн мурун

    He can NOT accept the truth about himself. Sickening

  70. cynthia leacock

    cynthia leacock

    21 күн мурун

    Oh my gosh we say things in the heat of the moment, let it go lady,

  71. Sugar & Hunneeyy

    Sugar & Hunneeyy

    21 күн мурун

    Why is his arm wrapped aroud her like that

  72. Ry Che

    Ry Che

    21 күн мурун

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  73. Cat Me

    Cat Me

    21 күн мурун

    Grandma is hurting the family by being trash to the daughter in law. If you disrespect the daughter in law then you will teach the grandson to disrespect the mom. DONE. Tell Grandma to shut up and watch her mouth.

  74. Tandi Holcomb

    Tandi Holcomb

    21 күн мурун

    Wait ... He won't let his mom disrespect his wife?

  75. Wanda Acheampong

    Wanda Acheampong

    21 күн мурун

    Donye is a true narcissist who blame everyone for his behavior.

  76. Vikki DC

    Vikki DC

    21 күн мурун

    The first sign of an abuser is separating the victim from their family and friends. That's exactly what Keisha doing

  77. trapp boy

    trapp boy

    21 күн мурун

    Any woman who wants to disrupt all relationships in her mans life’s, is because she wants control. If his wife gets mad at him, he would be next to not have a relationship with his own son. He knows he wouldn’t have a relationship with his son if he ever crossed her. She is Toxic

  78. trapp boy

    trapp boy

    21 күн мурун

    There so any fathers out here. Trying to make the women happy while neglecting everything else before they met. This fool doesn’t want to take any responsibility and own his mistakes. He wants to walk back in once he ears his daughter say she could do better. He is a piece of work. He he knew how they felt, he was more worried about his wife than his children

  79. Tiara Crockett

    Tiara Crockett

    21 күн мурун

    Bottom line. His wife controls EVERYTHING in this man life. She don't even let his daughter's in their life. He's weak. His daughters are beautiful.

  80. diane long

    diane long

    21 күн мурун

    Lord that happened to me my mother in-law all Up in the marriage Boy bye were divorced But she should be able to see her grandkids

  81. Jayden Ogiamien

    Jayden Ogiamien

    21 күн мурун

    iyanla makes you want to leave your bad relationships and fly away

  82. ShopTalk Radio 2020

    ShopTalk Radio 2020

    22 күн мурун

    He's a mess has a man can own up to who he truly is.... and that wife doesn't really care to address it.... she something else

  83. Andre Spivey

    Andre Spivey

    22 күн мурун

    I think mothers don't realize what abandoning a son does. This man doesn't quite know how to communicate with women or trust them, he is shut off to women in general because of his mother. We talk about the affects if bad fathers on children, but bad mother's has the same affect.

  84. Paulo Francisco Francisco

    Paulo Francisco Francisco

    22 күн мурун

    This is truly educational. We need to take our responsability as men and play our role no matter what. We need to be better fathers, parental.

  85. Wonie Blue16

    Wonie Blue16

    22 күн мурун

    She won't even let her son eat his food in peace because she doesn't want any crumbs anywhere and the father just happy to have a son if they keep praising that boy something will happen to him he has three daughters but I know he doesn't treat them the way he does his Son and that's sad and pathetic

  86. Pepmintpatty


    22 күн мурун

    Mamma looks great

  87. Sofie Sulaiman

    Sofie Sulaiman

    22 күн мурун

    Iyanla, i wish i can tell you in person.......



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  90. rossdaboss1959


    22 күн мурун

    Isaiah 53:5, But he was wounded for our transgressions, he was bruised for our iniquities: the chastisement of our peace was upon him; and with his stripes, we are healed. For salvation, people just need to follow the way they did it in Acts? They were baptized in the water and of the spirit. Here's why! The gospel is the death, burial, and resurrection of Jesus Christ. If we are to follow him, we must do the same thing. Death= repentance, Burial = baptism, and resurrection = being filled with the Holy Ghost and rising again from dead works of the flesh. That's what Acts 2:38 is. Peter replied, “Repent and be baptized, every one of you, in the name of Jesus Christ for the forgiveness of your sins. And you will receive the gift of the Holy Spirit. We must obey the gospel, 2 Thessalonians 1:8-9, in flaming fire taking vengeance on them that know not God, and that OBEY NOT THE GOSPEL of our Lord Jesus Christ... Matthew 7:21-23, Not every one that saith unto me, Lord, Lord, shall enter into the kingdom of heaven; but he that DOETH THE WILL OF MY FATHER which is in Heaven. St John 3:3-5, EXCEPT a man, be born of WATER AND OF THE SPIRIT, he cannot enter into the kingdom of GOD. We can't come up with our own gospel. Galatians 1:8-9, But though we or an angel from heaven preach any other gospel unto you than that which we have preached unto you, let him be accursed. Don't be cursed. One way for all people. Jews, Gentiles, and Samaritans. Our salvation has to match-up with the scriptures and no scriptures on the subject can be taken away. Eternity is TOOO long to be WRONG! st, John 5:39, Search the scriptures; for in them ye think ye have eternal life: and they are they which testify of me. The gospels show what Christ has done on the cross for us. The book of Acts shows us the beginning of Christ's Church and how to enter the Church, obeying Acts 2:38. The letters were written to the Church to show us how to behave now that we are born again into the Church. It's better to walk alone than to walk with a crowd going in the wrong direction. Are we supposed to follow the teachings of the apostles? Acts 2:42, They continued steadfastly in the apostle's doctrines. Ephesians 2:20, We are built upon the foundation of the apostles and prophets, Jesus Christ himself being the chief cornerstone. Jesus Christ was our perfect example back to God. He was baptized and received the Holy Ghost and we must be baptized and receive the Holy Ghost. He was holy and walked in righteousness and we must be holy and walk in righteousness. He died and rose again, and we must die to the things of this world and rise to walk in the newness of life. He prayed to the father showing us how to pray to the father. If you believe in this message, help spread it in the name of Jesus Christ. God bless you.

  91. Addie Williams

    Addie Williams

    22 күн мурун

    He’s lost..,truth looks like an attack.

  92. Addie Williams

    Addie Williams

    22 күн мурун

    Attacking his character? He’s lost

  93. Sofia farah

    Sofia farah

    22 күн мурун

  94. S.G Life, Learning Lessons with S.G

    S.G Life, Learning Lessons with S.G

    22 күн мурун

    Bitter baby mammas do that to their children’s father all the time - you don’t want me so you can’t see your child. So sick of that narrative- not fair to the children. Sigh😒

  95. Cleo Randall

    Cleo Randall

    22 күн мурун

    Beautiful work for a beautiful family. It’s all a process. Learning and healing is a process!

  96. Gloria Brown

    Gloria Brown

    22 күн мурун

    Time out for everything?....You remind me of my son who was 2.....Grab a grip and stop making excuses for all your past...daughters know and say what they feel....You as a son and a father need to fix this....u are the problem all around...Life is short...try to forgive and forget your past...And he is very rude because being rude builds up a mechanism of NOT taking blame....

  97. Nicole Washington

    Nicole Washington

    22 күн мурун

    The wife is so stuck up!

  98. Nikki Nikki

    Nikki Nikki

    22 күн мурун

    Omg he reminds me of my ex Eli , half take care his kids , Never take accountability, inconsistent, manipulating characteristics , selfish acts, and a grown man in a little boys body with a infant mind frame. How does his wife do it ??

  99. beautiful butterfly

    beautiful butterfly

    22 күн мурун

    I disagree with the hair on the balls lol cause fr my son is always gone be my son. No matter what she's talking crazy there.

  100. Sherrell James

    Sherrell James

    23 күн мурун

    I dont think those are really they're houses